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The idea behind Love and Respect is one that I greatly appreciate. It is intended to benefit the relationship between a married couple by defining the needs of each gender in the relationship. I always find books addressing this topic interesting because I can relate to one side, which can be comical (Eggerichs hits topics dead on), and I am eager to learn more about the needs of men. Though I am not married, I found this book beneficial in my relationship with my boyfriend.

The message of this book is simple enough to apply. Women want to feel loved and men want to be respected. If these are accomplished will you be a perfect couple? Yes. Well, probably not, but maybe it will work better because we understand what we need to put forth. The hard truth is, all relationships require energy and work- what matters is that you are trying, putting the effort in, but you can learn so many different ways of how to make the relationship work better. In this book, Eggerish reveals why couples can react negatively to each other in certain situations, and what can set them off. Also, he advises how to deal with this conflict quickly, easily, and biblically.

I believe that Emerson is sending out a message that works. Communication is vital to a relationship, and if you know your spouse, you can strengthen your bond with them.. Witness marriage the way the God intended. Again, this book is directed for married couples, but I have personally found that it can be helpful to apply in relationships of all kinds. Who knows, maybe somewhere down the line when you do meet that “special someone” you will already know how to give them what the want. Read Love and Respect by Emerson Eggerichs, you will not be disappointed!